Soldering or sautering

ESo my friend and I were going to a soldering party tonight. It's what the cool kids do on a Friday night. Anyways I kept saying "soLdeing" pronouncing the L. But that is incorrect. But it did confuse us... And this is what happened..

Em: hahahah omg. K so it IS soldering when you fuse two metals together, and sautering is when you lightly fry meat on a skillet. At this point I think I'm too restarted to even work at mcdonalds.

Me: no that is sauté 

Em: wowwww. I'm going to live in the wild with the animals now because that's obviously where I belong

What is sauter?!?!?

Me: the incorrect way of spelling solder based an the American pronunciation